Embracing My Mum Bod – By Stevie Niki AKA @mytribeofsix

I have been discussing the topic, self love + body image a lot on my social media platforms of late. I feel it is a topic that we should all be discussing more openly as so many of us suffer in silence or are even hurting ourselves emotionally over. So when I read this Instagram post written by Stevie Niki, I asked her instantly if I could repost this message on my blog as I was so inspired by the piece and I know you will be too.

Stevie Niki is the tribe leader and founder of My Tribe Of Six, a motherhood and lifestyle blogger. She is a Mumma to four beautiful children. Stevie loves to share her raw, honest daily adventures with the four children and her hubby. I have how she doesn’t sugarcoat anything and just keeps it real! 

Embracing My Mum Bod – By Stevie Niki

Today something happened to me that really got me thinking, something that made me truly think about and appreciate my body and all it has done for me.

It started with my three your old lifting up my shirt and attempting to “play” with my belly. Naturally my immediate reaction was to try to try pull my shirt back down and asked her not to do that, when she then exclaimed “But Mumma, your belly feels like playdough, can I please play with your playdough?” and I had a little chuckle to myself because “out of the mouths of babes” and all that. I let go of all inhibition and embraced my body, my child and all her innocence.

This was a thought provoking moment for me and a gentle reminder of all those fleeting feelings I have, negative and positive, which come and go as a woman learning to love and accept her body after having a baby.My body not be perfect, society may not deem it sexy and my three year old may liken it to playdough but that’s fine with me, and I will tell you why.


My tummy may be loose and flabby but that’s not what my children see; they see the home that housed them all for 160 weeks. My body may be covered in stretch marks but the kids beam with pride as they point and exclaim “that one right there, I made it when I was in your tummy.. didnt I Mum?” My boobs may be flabby skin with nipples attached but they fed and nourished all of my babies.

If my body can do all that and then provide some play dough for my three year old then it’s pretty f#cking fabulous, wouldn’t you agree?

So, should I be ashamed of my body, my loose skin, my saggy boobs, the extra cushion and the stretch marks that cover it? NO, they make me proud. Proud that I was lucky enough to conceive my children, that I carried four of them in my tummy. This body created, grew, birthed and nourished four amazing kids. So why are we defining our bodies by what society says is acceptable and not by what they have achieved?

Does being a certain size or having a particular body shape define a person? NO. What should define a person is simply WHO that person is.

Would weight loss make my loose skin and stretch marks disappear? Nope, they’re there for life now. So I embrace it and how I got them.

Should I stress and feel guilty about food and exercise? NO. That’s not a healthy mind set… No one should.

For me, some days I eat clean healthy meals and some days I eat Nutella sandwiched between a melting moment (life changing, try it) followed by pizza for dinner.

Some days I exercise, run around with the kids, spend hours cleaning and other days I watch movies with the kids, and spend hours cuddling, reading a book and just chilling.

It’s called balance.

Just enjoy life, we only get one. We shouldn’t waste it worrying if we think we look too fat, if our boobs are saggy, if there is too many calories in that meal. No regrets, run around with your kids, buy that dress you’re worried your bum will look big in, flaunt it and eat that donut you have been eyeing off.

Mamma’s be kind to your bodies, after all, they have achieved greatness in the form of tiny humans!! If that isn’t mind blowing I don’t know what is?

It is important to be healthy, don’t get me wrong but what is even more important is to be happy.

Let’s focus on being healthy; MIND, body and SOUL.

Here is to our bodies, may we truly appreciate and love them in all their forms.

Stevie with her four children.

By Stevie Niki

Website – https://mytribeofsix.com.au/

Instagram – www.instagram.com/mytribeofsix

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